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By Dr. Mark Warren and Sarah Emerman, PC
Chances are, if you have an eating disorder, you also experience shame associated with your illness. You may have shame about your body size and shape, the eating disorder itself, how you perceive that others view you, or many other issues that are reinforced by the eating disorder voice. Along with this shame you also may experience social stigma. The way people talk about their bodies, your body, the things you read in magazines or see on television, the lack of accurate information on the development of an eating disorder, and messages you might hear from family and friend may all contribute to feeling stigmatized for having an eating disorder. By the time someone presents for eating disorder treatment their thoughts are often tangled in the multiple ways stigma and shame affect their relationship between themselves and the world at large. As a result, many people delay entering into treatment, may try to convince themselves that the disorder does not exist, or have a difficult time accepting the severity of the disorder. To some degree, entering into treatment means confronting the stigma and shame that go along with the illness. The solution to this problem only comes from connecting with others in a supportive environment that will allow secrets and shame to be slowly understood and to understand that the stigma of these illnesses is unjustified, unfair and unnecessary.
De-stigmatization goes hand in hand with awareness, education, and honesty. Become a Media Watchdog through NEDA, participate in Fat Talk Free week, or get involved with an organization that works towards increasing awareness of eating disorders, their causes, and effective treatment. A critical eye and ear, along with a supportive community that lends its way to recovery can help to reduce the shame and stigma associated with suffering from these biologically based illnesses.
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